Strap-On Dildos

Strap-on dildos are made for harness play, and at The Adult Store our range is full of designs built to fit securely into a strap-on. With a flared or compatible base, these toys let one partner wear and the other receive, opening up pegging, same-sex play and confident, hands-free partnered fun. From lifelike realistic shapes to bold, colourful designs, there is a strap-on dildo for every couple.

What Is a Strap-On Dildo

A strap-on dildo is simply a dildo designed to be worn in a harness rather than held. The key is the base: a wide, flared or O-ring-compatible base holds the toy firmly in place so it stays secure during even the most enthusiastic play. This makes strap-ons perfect for pegging, for partners of any gender and for hands-free connection.

Explore the Range

Flared Base

Wide, secure bases that fit standard harness O-rings with ease.

Realistic Designs

Lifelike shapes for a natural look and feel during partnered play.

Smooth and Sleek

Non-representational designs for those who prefer a modern shape.

Every Size

From slim and beginner-friendly to bold and girthy for confident play.

Vibrating Options

Some designs add vibration for extra sensation for the wearer and receiver.

Harness Compatibility

Most of our strap-on dildos work with standard harnesses that use an O-ring, and many are compatible with popular locking systems for an extra-secure hold. Check the base size against your harness O-ring to ensure a snug fit. If you are buying your first set, a beginner-friendly harness and a moderately sized dildo make a wonderfully easy and comfortable starting point.

Communication and Connection

Strap-on play is all about teamwork and trust. Talk openly with your partner about pace, depth and what feels good, and check in throughout. Agreeing on simple signals helps both of you relax and stay connected, and clear communication makes the whole experience more pleasurable and intimate. The best sessions come from partners who feel safe, heard and free to enjoy themselves.

Take It Slow and Use Plenty of Lube

For comfortable strap-on play, generous lubrication is essential, especially for anal use where the body does not self-lubricate. Use plenty of high-quality water-based lubricant and reapply often, start slowly and let the receiving partner set the pace. Never rush or force anything. Warming up gently and building up gradually keeps everything comfortable and enjoyable from start to finish.

Materials, Cleaning and Care

Our strap-on dildos are crafted from soft, body-safe silicone that is non-porous, hygienic and easy to clean. Wash before and after every use with warm water and a mild antibacterial soap or a dedicated toy cleaner, then dry thoroughly and store somewhere clean and dry. Use water-based lube with silicone toys, and clean the harness as directed to keep everything fresh.

Discreet Delivery Across Australia

Your privacy is our priority. Every order is dispatched in completely plain, unmarked packaging with no external branding or product details visible. With discreet Australia-wide Express Post, your order arrives quickly and privately — whether you are in Sydney, Melbourne, Brisbane, Perth, Adelaide or regional Australia.